Monday, April 11, 2016

Last Post As 30

I am turning another year older on April 16th and unlike most people I am not dreading getting older.  I will be turning 31-years-old.  Although, I do not have everything that I desire or feel I should have by now, like a husband and booming writing career, but I am still blessed to have made it this far in life.

If someone would've asked me when I was 21, what I thought my life would be like when I was about to turn 31, my first response probably would have been either I'm married or engaged and then followed by -- have a job.  Well, I have the job part, but marriage and relationships seem to be something very elusive in my life after the ending of my last relationship.

Sunday, April 3, 2016

Not Helping, Then Hurting

I am starting to feel like I am getting to a point in my life where if something or someone is not helping me then it is hurting me.  That may seem like an extreme to some, but it is very clear to me.  I haven't always had the mindset that allowed me to view things in such a way, but the more that I am attempting to become successful in any area of my life I am noticing that things (habits) and people fall into one of these categories.