You may notice that I don't post to my blog every week and some would consider that to be in poor taste of a would-be writer. I want to be taken seriously as a writer and I feel that it is my obligation to post content that is both honest and sincere. I don't like to force my writing, but instead have the words flow from my mind, into my fingertips and onto the screen in an organic manner. Sometimes I don't have the motivation to write and I am not going to post mediocre content that I am not satisfied with just to reach an invisible quota as a "good writer".
The same can be said for relationships. I was never a person that wanted to be involved with someone romantically just for the heck of being in a relationship. Ever since I was old enough that my parents allowed me to date, I never hopped from relationship to relationship just so I could brag that I had a boyfriend. For years I didn't realize it, but I was practicing quality over quantity when it came to my romantic life. If two people don't have a real connection with one another then there is no reason to waste time calling a future break up yet to come, a relationship.
Sometimes people can have a connection and a relationship is not a good fit for the pair. That is the dynamic and complexity of human involvement. People can force relationships and have flimsy connections, but I question how long they will genuinely last. Life is too short and love is too grand to be in a situation that is not up to the standards and level of respect that all people should require and deserve.
Just for the record I admire the bloggers and writers that I come in contact with that have the drive to post to their blogs weekly and in some cases daily. I am a work in progress and I promise you readers, I will get better. Thank you for your support.
Thanks for reading!
(John 3:16)
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