Sunday, June 15, 2014

Leave Those Bags In The Past

If you have ever been in multiple bad relationships throughout your life and allow for the results of those messy relationships to transfer over into a new relationship then you are carrying around baggage.   

People hurt people, that is a fact of life and that is a fact of relationships.  Don't let yesterday's rain ruin today's sunshine.  Bad relationships happen, but you cannot make the new person in your life suffer for the mistakes others committed.  You harm yourself and potentially can throw away any hope of having a decent, healthy relationship.  Time to leave those bags in the past.

Sunday, June 8, 2014

When To Call It Quits

Before my current relationship I was with someone for about eight months and I felt like I was in love with him, but the longer the relationship went on I started to notice that we would have the same arguments over and over again.  I got tired of feeling like my words were falling on deaf ears so I made the difficult and necessary decision to end the relationship.  I knew internally that this relationship would only go in circles and that he was not going to change.  I put time and effort into this relationship for months and I admit that I could have stayed with him, but I would not have been happy.