Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Love In 2010

As 2010 approaches many of you will start reflecting on your lives in 2009 some will think about all the crazy things they've done or the personal accomplishments they have achieved. I personally have been thinking more about my past love life. In 2009 I was in a relationship with a man I thought would be my husband, for 8 months. 8 months isn't that long, but we had strong feelings for one another.

Thursday, December 24, 2009

The Reason For Christmas

On Christmas Day the majority of us will open gifts, listen to Christmas carols, watch a few of the Christmas shows that will come on television and importantly the majority of us will spend time with our families. All that is great, but not the reason for Christmas.

More than 2000 years ago (I'm estimating) a little boy was born in a manger in Bethlehem with a virgin for a mother and a carpenter for a father.

Thursday, December 17, 2009

My First Love

I remember my first love like it was yesterday. That's so cliché to say, but its true. I was a senior in high school when I got my first real boyfriend. We were in the same homeroom together and I thought he was so cute. I remember the day when I first thought he was cute. We were talking and he smiled. He had a great smile and he was dark skin. He didn't really like his complexion, but I thought it was beautiful.

I remember I told one of my friends that I liked him and she said he liked me too. I was surprised. The next day she got his number for me because I went on a school trip that day. It was a Friday and I remember talking on the phone with him that night and being so nervous. By the end of the weekend we were together. I was new to having a boyfriend so I didn't know how to go about things. The week we got together Valentine's Day was a few days away so we decided to exchange gifts. Nothing big because we didn't know each other like that so we got each other stuffed animals. We exchanged gifts at school, he got me a red dog and I got him a frog.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

First Things First


Before a person can begin a romantic relationship with another person they must first LOVE THEMSELVES. That is the very first thing a person must do. You must love yourself, be honest with yourself and embrace your flaws. Have self-esteem and know your worth and know that you don't have to settle for just anything that comes along.

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Why I Started This?

There are literally a million topics I could blog about, but I choose the topic of LOVE because its been on my mind for the longest time. When I think of love I think about the connection between 2 people rather it be friendship or romance. In this case the type of love I'm talking about is romance. I've been looking for my husband since I was 17 and several times I thought I found him but I didn't. I'm a 24-year-old woman looking for a man that could potentially be "THE ONE".